As a mom of an 8 month old baby boy, there isn’t anything that I wouldn’t do for my son. He is my pride and joy. With that being said, in doing it “For The Kids” news, there is a picture of Amina Buddafly holding Gunner (Peter Gunz’s son with his ex girlfriend Tara Wallace). Babyyyy, I’m sure no one including myself understands this triangle going on with these three.
Children are so innocent and Gunner was born into a world filled with catastrophe with his mom getting pregnant for her ex boyfriend and father to her other sons, who is married to Amina who also was pregnant. Now I think I can maybe forgive my husband (if I had one) for cheating, depending on the situation. But a whole baby as a reminder of his infidelity that’s a big pill to swallow and I don’t like swallowing horse pills. These women have argued back and forth over this man knowing that he is playing hopscotch from one bed to the other. HE EVEN MOVED THEM INTO THE SAME DAMN BUILDING, to make said jumping easier for him to “see the kids”. I take my hat off to these women because I just cannot and would not be in that situation.
So moving on, I guess it must have dawned on them that it’s easier to be fake sister wives. Lawd baby Jesus is the peen made of GOLD??? I’m all for blended families with me being a product of one and having one of my own BUT this right here is just tewww much for my liking. If they like it I love it and kudos to them for finding what works. Like I said the children are innocent and they are siblings who should know and grow with each other. My pressure just isn’t stable enough to have the mindset to deal with this situation of an ex who has a new kid or a side chick who became a wife. This is a daily I need a bottle of wine situation. I pray that this doesn’t mess up the mentality of the babies.
Now let’s skip on over to another triangle that had us sipping tea and clutching pearls in the past. Alicia Keys, Swizz Beatz & Mashonda another set of messy boots. I’m sure we are all familiar with this trio and their history (him supposedly cheating on Mashonda while married to her with Alicia and divorcing her to marry Alicia). So pictures recently surfaced of Swizz kissing Alicia while Mashonda sat next to them on what looked like a family vacation. BLANK STARE as I sip from my second bottle of wine.
I’m all for growth and maturity but hunty, that level of maturity is beyond my petty. Like I stated I would do anything for my son, to a certain degree I must add. FAMILY VACATION?? So umm yeah NOPE I will NOT. I would have to trust his father and his step mom to send him and sit this one out. Let them have those moments and memories because I’m perfectly fine with making my own with my child. I do applaud Mashonda for her growth and doing it for the kids, that right there speaks volumes. She pushed passed and pushed through.
I wish these women all the best for what’s in store in the future for their families, because honestly speaking some times you do have to “do it for the kids.”